Ukulibaziseka kokuqhanyelwa kwenzeka lapho owesilisa engakwazi ukuqhanyelwa kanzima futhi enze ucansi isikhathi eside, kodwa engakwazi ukuqhanyelwa. Okuthakazelisa kakhulu ukuthi iningi labesilisa abanale nkinga liyakwazi ukukhipha isidoda uma lishaya indlwabu. Yilapho ufaka umlingani wenyama negazi phakathi kwesandla somfana neqhude lakhe ukuthi aliqhume kancane kune-slug ku-sandpaper.
Ukukhipha isidoda ukubambezeleka kwakwaziwa ngokuthi ukuqhanyelwa ukubambezeleka kwaze kwaba yilapho sinquma ukuthi ukubiza owesilisa ngokuthi "i-ejaculator ebambezelekile" kwakunonya. Futhi kubizwa ngokuthi i-ejaculation evinjelwe. Phakathi kwamaphesenti amabili nayisithupha amadoda anale nkinga, kodwa luncane kakhulu ucwaningo olwenziwe futhi luncane kakhulu ulwazi oluthembekile olutholakala kubathengi.
Uma ungumfana ofika lapho ngokushesha kuno-Han Solo ku-Millennium Falcon, ungase uzibuze: yini enkulu lapha? Ngizohweba ngomthondo wami ophuma ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngale nkinga ngokushaya kwenhliziyo. Kodwa ngaphandle uma uke waba khona futhi wenza lokho, kunzima ukuqonda ukuthi kungakanani ukubambezeleka kwe-ejaculation kungaba umthwalo ebuhlotsheni. Lokhu kungenza ucansi lube nzima kinina nobabili.
Ziningi izici ezingaba nomthelela ekutheni indoda izowukhulula ngokushesha noma kancane kangakanani umthwalo wayo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi okubangela ukubambezeleka kwe-ejaculation kumuntu oyedwa kungase kungafani nalokho okubangela okulandelayo. Kufanele futhi sicabange ukuthi kungaba nezimbangela eziningi kunokuba kube nesisodwa nje.
Enye inkinga wukuthi abesilisa sibabamba ngeqophelo elihlukile kunabesifazane uma kukhulunywa ngocansi lwabo. Sithi kujwayelekile ukuthi umuntu wesifazane angayitholi i-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi ngethemba lokuthi angayithola uma eshaya indlwabu. Asinawo umusa ongaka futhi asinawo ukuphana kubantu. Uma indoda ingavela kuphela ekushayeni indlwabu, kodwa hhayi ocansini, khona-ke sicabanga ukuthi kukhona okungalungile. Uvame ukuzizwa kabi ngawe futhi umlingani wakho unesiqiniseko sokuthi yingoba akamtholi ekhanga ngokocansi noma ngoba enza okungalungile.
Ngakho-ke, uma ubhekene nale nkinga, zama ukukhumbula ukuthi ziningi izindlela zokujabulela ukuya ocansini nokusondelana ngokocansi ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuphuma kwesidoda ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi udlule umugqa wokugcina wothando. Kuthiwani uma wamukela isignali ukuthi owesifazane anganikeza ngesikhathi socansi lapho enelisekile futhi efuna ukuyeka? Kuthatha ingcindezi kubo bobabili.
Amazwana Akamuva