Kulekana kapena kusudzulana ndi mikhalidwe yalamulo imene palibe amene angafune kudutsamo, koma nthaŵi zina ingasonyezedwe monga njira zosapeŵeka ku mavuto omwe angakhalepo pakati pa okwatirana. Pachifukwa ichi, nthawi zonse ndi bwino kudziwa zonse zokhudza mikhalidwe imeneyi kuti musagwere mwa iwo kapena kudziwa momwe mungathanirane nawo bwino, ngati zingachitike.
Pamene anthu aŵiri asankha kugwirizana m’banja, amatero ndi chifuno chotsimikizirika cha kukhala pamodzi kwa moyo wawo wonse; koma, nthawi zina, izi sizingakhale choncho ndipo, mmalo mwake, amathetsa chiyanjano ndi kulekana komaliza kapena kusudzulana. M'malo mwake, ndizovuta kwambiri zomwe, malinga ndi ziwerengero, Amalembetsedwa mu 50% ya maanja okhazikitsidwa mwalamulo.
Pachifukwa chimenechi, nkoyenera kudziŵa mmene mikhalidwe iŵiri yalamulo imene imatsimikizira kulekana ndi kusudzulana kwa okwatirana kumagwirira ntchito, kupeŵa kufika mopambanitsa zimenezi kapena, ngati zitachitika, kudziŵa mmene angachitire mwalamulo m’njira yoyenera kwambiri.
Kusiyana pakati pa kulekana ndi chisudzulo n’chakuti choyamba n’chakanthaŵi, pamene chakumapeto. Ndiko kunena kuti pamene anthu awiri alekana mwalamulo, pakapita nthawi akhoza kuwombola udindo wawo monga okwatirana ndi kubwerera kugawana monga okwatirana; pamene chisudzulo sichikubwereranso ndipo kutha kwa chomangira chaukwati kumakhala komalizira.
Kusudzulana ndi kupatukana kumatha kuchitika nthawi iliyonse muubwenzi, m'mabanja achichepere kapena mwa omwe akhala limodzi kwa zaka zingapo. Ndizovuta kwambiri kuneneratu, koma zikhoza kuchitika kwa aliyense pamene palibe ubale wabwino wa m'banja.
Mwachitsanzo, ndi bwino kudziwa mmene zilili kulekanitsa pa 40 zomwe palibe amene akukuuzani, popeza pa msinkhu uno chirichonse chiri chovuta pang’ono, chifukwa cha zinthu zonse zimene zingaphatikizepo zowona. Mwanjira ina iliyonse, Ndikofunikira nthawi zonse kupeza chithandizo chabwino chazamalamulo ndi loya wodziwa yemwe amathandizira pazamalamulo omwe akukhudzidwa.
Momwe mungapezere chithandizo chabwino chalamulo?
Pali maofesi apadera azamalamulo omwe ali ndi maloya a Family Law omwe angakuthandizeni kuthana ndi vuto lanu mosavuta komanso osalipira ndalama zambiri. Ndikoyenera kuyesetsa kulimbikitsa chisudzulo chodziwika bwino chomwe chimadziwika ndi kufulumira, kuvomerezana pakati pa magulu awiriwa ndipo chikhoza kuwononga ndalama zokwana €150 pa mwamuna kapena mkazi wakale.
Maloya odziwika bwino m'derali amapanga njira zamalamulo zofananira mwachangu kwambiri, makamaka pankhani ya kusudzulana kogwirizana komwe sikufunikira kutengera kukhoti. Pamilandu yotere ndikwanira kukwaniritsa mapangano ena, kulemba chikalatacho, kusaina ndi onse awiri ndikuchipereka kwa notary kuti alembetse chisudzulocho.
Pamgwirizano wofananirako, ziganizo zosiyanasiyana zitha kukhazikitsidwa zomwe zimapindulitsa onse awiri ndikuthandizira kuthana ndi nkhawa za "ndikasiyana ndilibe kopita”, popeza mikhalidwe ina ingatsimikizidwe kuletsa aliyense wa okwatirana akale kukhala opanda chochita.
Kwa izo, kutengapo mbali kwa loya wabwino ndikofunikira m’makulidwe a chisudzulo chirichonse, kaya mwachimvekere kapena chamkangano (m’bwalo lamilandu), popeza kuti mwa njira yokhayo njira zothetsera chilungamo zingatsimikiziridwe kwa onse aŵiriwo.
Dongosolo liyenera kukhala loti okwatirana akale ali ndi kagawidwe koyenera ka chuma chopezedwa muukwati ndi chisungiko cha kulinganiza bwino kwandalama kuti adzichirikize pambuyo pa kulekana, ndipo izi zingatheke kokha ndi chithandizo chabwino chalamulo.
Kuti mupeze yoyenera, ndikwanira kuwunikanso maloya ambiri abwino kwambiri pa intaneti. Pali mabungwe apadera azamalamulo omwe ali ndi akatswiri oweruza mu Family Law omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mulekanitseni mwalamulo kapena kusudzulana, pamitengo yotsika komanso mwachangu komanso mosavuta.
Chifukwa chake, ngati, mwatsoka, mukuyenera kusudzulana kuti muthetse ubale wanu, funani thandizo lazamalamulo kwa maloya aukwati omwe amakulangizani ndikupanga njira zofananira, nthawi zonse amafunafuna zabwino zonse kwa aliyense wokhudzidwa.
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