Jacob Lund/Adobe Stock

Jacob Lund/Adobe Stock

Ndizosavuta kufotokoza chifukwa chake ogwira ntchito masiku ano akuwoneka kuti akunyalanyaza phindu lolowa nawo chinthu chachikulu ndikudzipereka kuti apindule kwambiri. Ndipotu, "Funso ulamuliro!" wakhala mawu olakwika kwa nthawi yayitali kuposa momwe yakhalira mawu omveka bwino.

Koma funso la kugwirira ntchito limodzi silikuchoka kuntchito. Pali zifukwa zinayi zimene zimakhalira zovuta kumanga.

1. Anthu masiku ano amaganiza ngati makasitomala kuposa osewera.

Inde, amadziŵa kuti abwana awo ndi amene amawalipira. Komabe, amayang'ana ubale wawo ndi bungwe lililonse lokhazikitsidwa, ngakhale laling'ono kapena lalikulu bwanji, ndipo amaganiza, "Muli ndi chiyani kwa ine? Ndipo ndi ndalama yanji yomwe ndiyenera kugwiritsa ntchito kuti ndipeze zomwe ndikufuna kapena zomwe ndikufuna kuchokera kwa inu?

Ogwira ntchito ambiri amayamikira kukhala ndi magwero a ndalama ndipo mwina phindu lina. Iwo amayamikira kulandiridwa, kuvomerezedwa, ndi kukondedwa. Iwo ali oyamikira kukhala ndi mwayi wofikira kumalo opangira zinthu kumene angakapezerepo chidziŵitso, maphunziro, ndi maukonde, malo okhala ndi makompyuta, mafoni, ndi zimbudzi, mwinanso khitchini, malo ochitirako masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndi zinthu zina za muofesi. Iwo ali oyamikira makomo amtsogolo amene ntchito yamakonoyi ingatsegulire kwa iwo. Koma tisatengeke. Sakhala pano kwa nthawi yayitali, mulimonse.

Anthu ambiri masiku ano amazindikira kuti mibadwo yakale imakhala yochepa kwambiri kukhala ndi ntchito zanthawi yayitali, zosasokonezedwa m'bungwe. Sangagwire ntchito ndi bungwe limodzi nthawi iliyonse, kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse, kapena kugwira ntchito pamalopo. Sangathenso kukhulupirira “dongosolo” kapena gulu kuti liziwayang’anira, choncho n’zosachita kuonekeratu kuti n’zoonekeratu kuti n’zokhulupirika: kufuna kukhala m’malo, kulemekeza ulamuliro, kufunitsitsa kudzimana kwakanthawi kaamba ka ubwino wa ena. zonse, ndi chidwi chopereka mosasamala kanthu za ngongole kapena mphotho.

2. Ndikusintha momwe ogwira ntchito amaganizira za ubale wawo ndi anzawo akuntchito.

Maubwenzi amenewa amatanthauza kudalirana kwakukulu pakufuna zolinga zenizeni pa sitepe iliyonse ya njira, ndipo zokhudzidwazo zimakhala zazikulu. Akuluakulu ali pantchito kuti apeze ndalama. Pali mwayi wambiri wokhumudwitsa komanso / kapena kukhumudwa.

3. Ndikusintha momwe anthu amawonera anthu omwe ali ndi udindo.

Apanso, amaganiza ngati makasitomala, pamenepa, makamaka, makasitomala awo. Ogwira ntchito nthawi zambiri samayang'ana anthu ena kuntchito kuyesera kudziwa "malo awo oyenera" m'malo mwake, ndiko kuti, momwe angasinthire kuti "agwirizane" ndi ena omwe ali ndi ubale wautali komanso maphunziro abwino. M'malo mwake, amakuyang'anani inu ndi wina aliyense m'chipindamo ndikuganiza, "Ndikudabwa kuti ndi gawo liti lomwe mungakhale nalo m'mutu uno wa mbiri ya moyo wanga."

4. Palibe amene amayembekeza kutsatira njira yachikale ya ntchito.

Kodi nchifukwa ninji antchito ayenera kukhala ndi vuto lozoloŵera njira ya kampani ya mmene ayenera kukhalira pamene iwo sadzakhalako nkomwe kwa nthaŵi yaitali chonchi? Iwo amaganiza, “Zozama, ine ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Sinthani ndandanda yanga, zizolowezi zantchito, kalembedwe ndi malingaliro pa ntchito iliyonse yatsopano? Ngakhale atakhala otsimikiza kuti pamapeto pake agwirizane ndi owalemba ntchito, n’zokayikitsa kuti angakhale okonzeka kutero kuyambira pachiyambi; ndithudi osati kumayambiriro kwa ntchito yanu yoyamba kapena yachiwiri yeniyeni.